if the heartache will ever go away. I'm talking to a friend/colleague on facebook who just had a baby last week and I'm trying really hard to be excited for her and say nice things but every nice thing I say feels like a pin in my heart. They're sincere and all but keeping my chin up and pretending like I'm ok with not being a mommy too is painful. People just assume you aren't ready for kids when you don't have them yet - it never crosses their mind that maybe you DO want them it's just not working.
That hit me today taking a stupid IKEA email survey. There was a question about children in your house.
"How many children do you have?"
c)5+ (for octomom I guess)
d) none. I don't want children
e) None yet but we're planning to start a family in the next year.
Nice plan eh? Wouldn't it be cool if it worked that way? Hmm... I think I'll get pregnant this cycle so that our birthdays don't overlap or some bs like that. Ha. Yeah right.
I keep hoping this emotional issue will go away with time but I'm finally starting to believe that it will only get harder. Another cycle, another pregnant friend, another friend's baby...
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